An expat Californian building a new life via the tango in Buenos Aires since 2003, including information on learning the tango and where to dance it in Buenos Aires.

Friday, July 16, 2010

Una Tanda Mas

Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery. And today? Today is a gift.
That's why we call it the present.

--Babatunde Olatunji, founder of Drums of Passion

I never think of the future. It comes soon enough.

--Albert Einstein

I hate to leave a milonga. I say to my friend, or to myself, Una tanda mas. Let’s not go yet--let’s see what will happen next.

I don’t want to leave the place where I feel most at home. I don’t want to leave the place where I know the rules, where I feel in control, where my skills are recognized and appreciated. In my heart I am always waiting to dance La Cumparsita, the traditional final tango, but I’m not in any hurry.

The tables of men who look like a casting call for The Godfather, the rows of sultry women smoking cigarettes with their legs crossed, the man who rhapsodize on the reasons you are so exquisite when you dance, the endless discussions of the music and orchestras, the men who “love” you and press their phone numbers into your hand, the teacher who tries every trick in his repertoire in order to make his partner want lessons with him, the elegant Maitre’ds who remember where you like to sit, the men who show off their fanciest steps in front of the tables of their friends and the other man who “loves” you, the waiters and waitresses who tirelessly kiss you hello and goodbye while serving you until dawn in the smoky salons, the women in the bathrooms who sell sexy tango clothes, the taxi drivers who sing tangos on the way to the milonga, the collective intake of breath with the first notes of Pavadita or the Pugliese tanda—this is my world now. And I love it.

I hope there will always be Una tanda mas for you and for me.

--from my unpublished memoir, The Church of Tango


a Broad said...

Thank was just beautiful, perfecto ~

johanna said...

Marvelous post, Cherie. Yes, that's what I love too.

tangocherie said...

Gracias, ladies. I so appreciate your comments.

Katie said...

What an evocative post, Cherie. You should really work on getting your unpublished memoir published.

Maraya Loza-Koxahn said...

That was beautiful.

Anonymous said...

I think the 'The Church of Tango' needs to be finished and published.
Having had a small excerpt I feel I want more. Beautifull.
Luv JB

Tina said...

Beautiful! Must. Go. Back. Now.

The Accidental Tangoiste said...

Lovely, Cherie! I look forward to reading The Church of Tango some day soon!